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dad2jeff
08-21-2005, 11:40 PM
Ok so i have this ex-life//wife who is the mother of my oldest. who will not take responsibility for the way my daughter acts towards me/or anyone meaning. she has got her so screwed up my daughter is willing not to go with us to hawaii. for lack of any explanation NAH!! dont want to. instead of my x saying anything she just claims see she doe'snt like you! what are you doing she ask. thats not the kid i sent.. i feel trap if i say something to the 12yr she may not understand. i sure cant say anything to the x because its like reloading for her. she takes everything i try to do and twists it into her own little VODO doll. and screws me with it every time. this is one example of what i go through. about five years ago after my x had been married for awhile. she sent my daughter to school with a new last name. thats right she tried to change her name at school. thus the rest of her life. when i caught on all i heard was its what she wants bah bah bah! come to find out. the new school did not know what my daughters name was or is. so after i found this out because my daughter told me. mommy said this is my real name you are not my dad. i had to threaten to sue the school and shut it down. but she still took this and made it out that i didnt want them to be a family. ](*,) ](*,) it has been one new thing a year for nine years. how old before she can see that i love her very much and want to stay in her life and want her in mine.

sao95
08-27-2005, 10:14 PM
I'd take your daughter out to a park or somewhere quiet, and have a heart to heart with her, also a journal is a good idea I think, if you have things to say, but don't feel you can say them now, jot them down, and give it to your daughter when she is older. It won't help for now, but might help clear the air later.
sao