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Anonymous
08-12-2004, 03:14 AM
Hi Folks.

What can I say other than this first year of being Mr. Mom has been surreal. Unlike most stay at home dads, the choice wasn't voluntary as I was laid off three weeks prior to his birth. It was a rather bitter moment and still smarts a bit however time has that way of smoothing things out. Along the way I've had the enviable opportunity of playing a direct role in Jim's development and I've a renewed respect in my own mother's constitution. Jim's a happy child always smiling and adventurous and to quote my wife "we're as thick as thieves". We've our own routine that getting to be a lot more fun as he crawls about and we sometimes "rough house" on the living room floor. All activity ceases at 10:30 am as Boobah followed by Telletubbies comes on. Prior to being a dad I used to catch glimpses of those shows and wonder what on earth did I find so fascinating about the equivalent programs as a "wee brat" so long ago. But to now see the world through his eyes opens up a sparkling but faintly familiar world of immense immagination. Now I know how Dr. Seuss must feel. I look back on that fateful day almost a year ago when I carried my papers out to the car and in all honesty had I known then what a trip this would be.... I would have smiled. :)

Remington
08-12-2004, 03:28 AM
Hey there,

Welcome to dadstayshome.com! Sounds like you are doing just fine as Mr Mom...

Boobah eh? My kids saw that this summer for the 1st time and just stared into the tv screen and never moved or spoke a word for the entire program. It worried me that I could bring out the cookies and set it in front of their faces and they didn't flinch. :shock:

Anyway, register a username and join in on the fun here. There are a lot of great guys here to meet. Looking forward to hearing some stories from you. :D

Don-Dad
08-12-2004, 03:30 AM
Welcome Louis and please join our forum. There are a great bunch of dads here and if you need to vent or want to share a funny story, please do.

Don-Dad
08-12-2004, 03:31 AM
Dang Rem, you must have been posting the same time I was and just beat me to it :)

Remington
08-12-2004, 03:34 AM
HAHA! I am the fastest poster in the East. :lol: :lol:

OK time for bed, I'm getting punchy. :roll:

Jackson's Dad
08-12-2004, 04:29 AM
Midnight? Time for me to get started! (Sigh.)

Now I know how Dr. Seuss must feel.

Awesome description. Yeah, he's one of my idols. I am just fascinated at his ability to get it right -- to understand kids, and that childish part of your brain. He's up there with Roald Dahl (James and the Giant Peach), and of course, Charles Schultz. I am so looking forward to reading all these to Jackson.

Welcome to the gang.

Dan

tommyw/1
08-12-2004, 05:01 AM
Feels a bit like when he leaks through his nappies. :roll:
Oh...been there, I remember once(twice actually), when my little buttercup(2-3 months at the time), sprayed it across the room :shock: Now that was one warning I didn't get from the seasoned family members and friends! After getting a lecture from the wife on how to properly remove(dirty) and how to QUICKLY reapply(clean) diaper......a week later it happened to her :wink: Welcome to the site my friend!

benj
08-12-2004, 06:26 AM
G'Day! Louis...Welcome aboard, mate...
Midnight.... time to clock out.
'tis two in the afternoon Down Under...time for a cuppa...
while you blokes in the in the northern hemi snooze(except for Dan, 'evening Danno')... I'll keep the site fire ablaze...

mjknapp
08-12-2004, 12:52 PM
Welcome Louis, I have come to love the little routines me and my kids have also, Every sunday, me and my daughter cook pancakes for the family, the little things seem a little more enjoyable now that I have nothing on my mind than the kids.

SAHF
08-12-2004, 03:20 PM
Welcome Louis!

tt3
08-12-2004, 05:26 PM
Welcome too!

Jackson's Dad
08-13-2004, 04:38 AM
while you blokes in the in the northern hemi snooze(except for Dan, 'evening Danno')... I'll keep the site fire ablaze...

Ah, its 12:37am in New Jersey, so it's my time again to watch the site.

Remington
08-14-2004, 02:41 AM
haha - I came to mess it up for you... :wink:

My parents were very relieved that Charley took the low road. Looks like 2 storms have been developing off Africa's coast and are heading our way again. Could be next week before we know anything.