Sorry to Intrude - but I need suggestions

[Anonymous]

My husband has been a stay at home dad for the past 5 years. He feels that my career is more important and childcare and afterschool care was just not worth it. Searching the internet, it tells how to do sweet things for your wife (bring her flowers, run her a bath, etc.). I'm trying to find something to get for my husband. He's not into sports and he doesn't drink. Any ideas would be great. I really want to do something special to show him how much I appreciate what he does for me and our three boys.

Thanks!

PS - I admire every one of you for doing what you do. Keep up the good work!

[SAHF]

Alright Mr. Mom-Mrs. 8)

For any other dad out there reading this....Mr.Mom-Mrs is a lady to be nice and clean.

Is your husband into any type of music, jewelry or such? Anything material? I do have this suggestion...this one I love!

Get a babysitter for one Friday (overnight)....unknown to him. Take him out to a nice resturant all dressed up. Hand him a little gift (me it is watches) that he needs to open. Tell him how you feel for all that he has done.

As you end the meal (a small meal-do not want to feel bloated or full.. :wink: ), you go out and get some ice cream cone and share it while walking along. Then take him to a nice hotel (pre-reservation) and check in.

Of course, the night begins with a new teddie....from there you will have to take it....I am trying to keep it CLEAN! :D

And of course, the following day....let the kids take dad to movie of his choice or pizza....and have them make something nice. Nothing says I love you from your kids than something that they make!

He will never forget what you and your children have did for a long time coming!

Just my .02.

[tt3]

Two very good ideas, I wouldn't mind either. The time off is a really cool idea. My wife actually has taken a few afternoons off and let me go do whatever until supper time. Even a few hours is incredible. The best was when she had us meet her for lunch (we seldom do lunch, but we do visit her at work) and after we were done eating she told me she took the afternoon off. We were there with seperate cars, and I was just kinda let go to do what I wanted!
I really like going out to eat (at places with good beer, but you said he doesn't drink ;) ) because then I don't have to cook it, get up and run for things during dinner, and I don't have to clean afterwards.
hmmm, and the hotel isn't a bad idea either :twisted:

=D> to you for thinking, and asking!
Good luck!

[Jackson's Dad]

SAHF, yeah watches are a favorite of mine as well. Mainly classic designs from the 40s and 50s. My wife got me a Hamilton for our wedding, and it was the best present.

Guilt-free time off is a great thing. But it might be nice to have the time together. Are there any overnight destinations nearby? We leave in the north east, so when we want to get away, we'll drive up to Maine, stay at a B&B and eat lobster. Or go to my college town (Northampton, MA) and do the same. It's fun to get away and just do nothing of importance.

When our son was a month old, my wife and I got each other silly frivolous presents. I got a game machine (Nintendo) and she got a Tivo... perfect for those times when Jackson will only sleep on your shoulder.

Dan

[benj]

Sahf...You put some balanced thought into your idea. I too liked the pre-booked hotel with Momma, five star of course, followed up with pizza and a movie with the kids..

Louis, Always the rebel...

TT, I agree, what a great woman to go to these lenghts to show how much she appreciates her hubbie...

Mr-Mom's-Mrs, or may I call you M3?...Perhaps you should just ask your hubbie what he wants.

Just like those socks and ties we gets as xmas pressies, although thoughtful, they rarely are what we want or need...G'luck.

Afterthought: Did it ever occur to any of you blokes
how many mum-lurkers are out there viewing our fine work?...

G'Day ladies...I hope you're learning along with us...Cheers

[tt3]

Afterthought: Did it ever occur to any of you blokes
how many mum-lurkers are out there viewing our fine work?...

G'Day ladies...I hope you're learning along with us...Cheers

:shock: :shock: :shock:
8-[

[kidswriter71]

I know she's really curious about this site but I told her it was a boys only club. 8) (big mistake). :oops:

Haha! Don't ever tell them that! They'll be lurking for sure!

A sidenote in regards to the last part of your post: My wife and I sometimes use IM to talk about things we know we'll get really worked up about. She'll be on one machine and I'll be on the other, typing away to each other. We both sometimes find it easier to communicate via writing, even in realtime. Sometimes we use the IM for love notes too... :oops:

[kidswriter71]

Right now they are, but we've had them in different rooms in our old house.

Currently she is three feet away to my left, playing Mahjongg. :lol:

[cheezwiz]

I would love it if my wife bought me a gift certificate to thinkgeek.com, cool little toys on there.....

[kidswriter71]

Great Game! I went to Chinatown in Philadelphia and bought a real set a few years ago. Haggled with a toothless old hard dealer of a woman and thought at 100 bucks I made out like a bandit (down from 125). I later find out the set sells for 75. Her parting words were nod, bow and toothless grin "Ah goo wuk" :lol:

Funny! I've made that same mistake on eBay. :x

Cheezwiz brings up a good idea. COMPUTER TOYS! Yeah, bring 'em on! Wanna make us (me) happy? Buy me a new flightstick and rudder pedals for my flight simulator.

BTW, Mr-Mom's-Mrs, I think it's really cool how you're giving your husband so much respect and gratitude. Hats off to you. \:D/

[Remington]

Yea no kidding. I don't think my wife would ever think to do something like that unless it was my birthday and felt she had to do it... :roll:

I am a huge food person. I like the idea of leaving the kids off with a babysitter and going to a nice restaurant for some good food. It can be expensive but if you splurge a couple times a year to go to that nice restaurant it is more memorable anyway.

Also it isn't just where or what you do. There needs to be some sincerity that comes along with it. I mean yea, get the guy a nice Rolex but you need to really tell him with your mouth (I am talking about speaking and get your mind out of the gutter boys) and tell him how appreciative you really are.

[tt3]

Also it isn't just where or what you do. There needs to be some sincerity that comes along with it. I mean yea, get the guy a nice Rolex but you need to really tell him with your mouth (I am talking about speaking and get your mind out of the gutter boys) and tell him how appreciative you really are.

:lol: :lol: :lol:
Good one Rem!!

Sound advice as well.

[Anonymous]

I wanted to thank all of you for your great ideas. I wanted to let you know what's going on.

Yesterday, I went to the auto parts store and purchased a set of ramps for him, and a little something that looks good on me.

Also, we are planning a night on the Circle Line in NYC.

Today, I bought him something else (but I can't tell you yet because I just sent him the like to your website and I don't want him to find out what it is).

Thanks again and I'll keep you informed as to how things are going.

[SAHF]

Outstanding!

Now you are going to have us :oops: with anticipation!